>people pleasers are annoying
Assuming he has his money together and is providing for you then cooking and sucking dick are literally your job
a (boi)wife is just a (boi)private prostitute, as the fat jew would say
That being said
>GIVE THE BLOWJOB FOR NOTHING
>GIVE FREE SEX FOR NOTHING
Is this imply that it's impossible to enjoy giving a blowjob or, lmao, having sex?
Like especially if you don't have a transactional relationship
reframing it as a transactional relationship is just denying the value you yourself get from things
if that value doesn't exist then you should critically evaluate it but it's not like that's news, stop doing things you don't want to do