>>26311
honestly struggling to understand what ur trying to say here
like, isn't communication and social interaction itself an act where you play the role of whatever uve chosen to represent urself as
and "replacing what wish lost", like, in my mind i dont see this as a bad thing? if someone needs friendship and u act out the role of a friend, isn't that just called... being nice? being nice itself is an action that requires some level of effort, like being able to see what people want/desire, being the one to fulfil that desire, presenting yourself in a way that aligns with what the other person wants ("acting"), being able to "play the role" effectively, knowing how to improvise, etc.
everyone wants something, everyone has subconscious desires, and for most people... if u give them what they want, they'll happily give anything in return. u could call that "taking advantage" of their desire for love, or you could simply call it what it is: being someone that she loves, and loving her in return.
for most people, the feeling of connection itself is the reward. obviously someone who can generate that feeling is going to be liked more... and 90% of the "act" is just called "being someone who is nice and lovable and fun to talk to"