>>23749
i can be direct now that ur firestorm is over but here (this is a long one):
it’s not autism to point out the obvious subtext
autistic people are usually the ones who miss subtext
autistic people are also usually the ones who don’t realise they’re kinda broadcasting their obvious feelings and intentions everywhere without realising it (the issue is something about not being able to imagine how their actions are seen by others)
intentionally hiding ur subtext from me is called “being a retard” and every time u try mask it with insults, ur just making things worse, because u struggle to realise ur mask is like transparent glass (hint, intentionally trying to hide something is a sign that it exists or at least exists in ur mind, and after a while u can figure out the general description of that thing. if ur mad, ur body reacts physically by releasing adrenaline and making u impulsive, and then u might say “im not mad!!” in a rly mad voice, but then u realise saying that kinda revealed what was on ur mind...)
the point of the image i sent u about “psychopaths failing the proverb test” is that they did just fine on the multiple choice version (when they were given a cue), but they could also just observe the environment and realise what was going on after a while
ur mostly just wasting my time if ur excuse is “i didn’t know what u meant” (kinda like ur the one who can’t notice social cues...), but if u apologised and tried to be more truthful i would have forgiven you
basically: ur the one who gets extremely uncomfortable when i make a guess about what u mean, but in the end it turns out i was 99% correct about everything and just missing some tiny little detail going on behind u. i try make up some vague metaphor so u would be able to follow along, then u get mad and call me insane because you can’t realise im actually matching what ur saying in a different way (if u joke about writing a book, and i say wow that’s awesome what genre and then ask for a picture of ur pen u’ll think im “taking you seriously”), ur subconsciously filling in the gaps, getting uncomfortable (kinda exposing the thing ur holding in ur hand already). the joke is, lol, ur getting mad, so im gonna start treating you as a joke (because ur attempts at hiding things are a joke).
u saw where this one ended up... maybe u realised the whole time what u had to say, but u wanted me to say it first, but i call that “being a retard” and kinda just a turn-off in general. the wild accusations come from general frustration, and were meant to elicit something like... “no ur wrong it’s obviously not that,, dummy, it’s just our bookwriting club lol, we only write fiction stories”
i thought my intentions were pretty obvious but u thought i was clueless or something, or got off at the feeling of “hiding something”
in the end... i just like reading books wtf i dont care if it’s embarrassing or whatever, but your insults made this way worse than it needed to be. YOU tire ME by refusing to get it, and it’s not my responsibility to explain every tiny little mistake you’ve ever made, because guess why? you keep insulting me and saying no instead of shutting up and listening to something that should have been over in one simple conversation about 6 months ago. next, don’t get offended, realise that this is the behaviour u elicit from others, then comprehend the depths of what you’ve done. and then grow up.